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Articles on the applied positive psychology of relationships and communication based on the latest scientific insights.

marriage psychology and therapy

What Is Marriage Psychology? +5 Relationship Theories

There’s a lot of good news when it comes to getting and staying married. In the United States and parts of England, for instance, divorce [...]

Active Constructive Responding Relationships

What is Active Constructive Responding?

How positive we are when our significant other shares with us something they express with enthusiasm and feel strongly about, it turns out, not only [...]

emotional blackmail

18 Ways to Handle Emotional Blackmail (+ Examples & Quotes)

Emotional blackmail is a dysfunctional form of manipulation that people use to place demands and threaten victims to get what they want. The undertone of [...]

10 Ways To Build Trust in a Relationship

Trust: You cannot have a healthy relationship without it. And yet, virtually all of us can bring to mind a scenario where our trust has [...]

positive punishmen

12 Examples of Positive Punishment & Negative Reinforcement

You might be thinking that “positive punishment” sounds like an oxymoron, after all, how can punishment be positive? Not many people “like” punishment, right? The [...]

attachment theory

What is Attachment Theory? Bowlby’s 4 Stages Explained

Is it all your mother’s fault? No matter what the “it” refers to, Sigmund Freud would have probably said yes to that question. However, we [...]

Codependency for Dummies

Codependency: What Are The Signs & How To Overcome It

Codependency refers to a psychological construct involving an unhealthy relationship that people might share with those closest to them. It was originally thought to involve [...]

interpersonal skills

Interpersonal Effectiveness: 9 Worksheets & Examples (+ PDF)

What is the most important skill a person can have? There is a myriad of skills that can be added to our repertoire, enhanced, and [...]

Interpersonal Psychotherapy People

What is Interpersonal Psychotherapy (IPT): A Case History

How often do you feel relationships are your biggest source of stress, sadness, and worry? If the answer is “often”, you may find a solution [...]

Exercises to Learn More About Each Other

21 Couples Therapy Worksheets, Questions & Activities (PDF)

What if I told you there was a magic recipe for making a relationship work? I’m sure you wouldn’t believe me, and for good reason! [...]

3 Positive Relationships Exercises Pack